There are a huge amount of words written on co-creating your reality. Many of them are total guff and, in my opinion, dangerous nonsense that does no good to anyone. I had a penny drop moment the other day. Really having an influence on creating your reality is not some magical, idealistic bucket of wishes, it is something which can actually happen. So what do you need to bring your goals and aspirations into being? Well a realistic plan and a willingness to schedule the intermediate steps really does help you take charge of things.